Position of Peace

I have been thinking about my relationships with certain woman friends..and how I never take their behavior personally..I am rarely defensive around them..when they are not in touch with me ..I do
not feel rejected or neglected..I am able to believe that they are busy and will be in touch when they can..

There are days when I wish I behave this same way around everyone I value..display less nervous
behaviors which probably reinforces the grey feelings of anxiety between the person and me..

The reason for my position of peace with the certain friends is that I am profoundly confident
in the place that is the root of their behavior and that place does  not appear to have any evidence of malice