History Imprinted Human Behavior

Walking through "my Starbucks'" gallery, being a party guest this weekend... Thinking about my behavior and how it reflects my reaction to my mother's health issues..my weekend composed of people that did not know me during my life before a failing parent was apart..The party host reflected defensively on my behavior..I started to explain my history behind my human style..she laughed it off as my over-thinking.. We all bring a history to human iteractions..and it frequently has nothing to do with the person linked with the interaction.