Covert

I am overweight.  I have been loosing weight in a slow and steady pace.  People would inform me that I needed to loose weight when I was at a peak weight. 

"My weight is not a topic for discussion" I would react to the evaluator


Ironically, a patch of comments have sprung up from grade school friends..the anger has been exchanged for a feeling of  a waring down

The substitute eternal response  has enabled me to engineer a more covert and quick moving on from the person..