Baby Names

I tell,myself and others, that I never expected to get married or have children ..that was not a key desire for me..my life unfolded a different way..I talk to people about my firm wish to be a godmother


Yet I have vivid memories, of being in my late twenties or early thirties,  carving out baby names.  I would visualize myself using  the selected names while interacting with my child.

Thinking a life will be a certain way ..does not  mean it will be..