Re-Entry of Abusers

I invite potential abuse into my life. I create the doorway for their re-entry by returning their calls. My reasons feel just. I returned the call of one abuser because I wanted to keep lines of communication open for when a beloved was in the hospital. The beloved was in the hospital and I was not informed. The excuses are pointless when I do not share the same page as the abuser..being abusive confirms a lack of concern for my heart or mind anyway.. This is a keen emotional detour that makes my life harder.