Becoming Lighter

I was raised by a relative that did not answer me. Being raised this way has resulted in my reacting when I observe people not answering other people. My workplace is a room with cubicles and people frequently verbally reach out to their co-workers over the temporary walls. When people did not answer..I would walk over to the desk of the non-answering co-worker and ask him to respond. Last night,I began to think this is becoming a lot of work ... reminded myself that I have the choice to become lighter and let this behavior go.. Finding the most important answer