How a Reader changed my Life

I love getting and reading blog reader's coments. A key coment may have changed my life. A reader sent me a warning, "emotional dumping and withholding is social warfare", regarding my relationships. He perfectly described my story of communication with the "favorite" people from my formative years. I was always in conflict regarding moving on from certain people because raw closeness was generated by their opening up to me. The same people would retreat when I needed a listener. The perfected worded description seeded an awareness to be on the look-out.