Reliving Conversational History

I have treated certain conversations with a certain male friend as continuations of certain word exchanges of married relatives Sitting on a loveseat watching cable and chatting with a male friend was the scene for my reliving of conversational history. I asked my couch companion if I was talking to loud to the point of annoyance..he would say no and I would not accept the answer and release it..I kept asking and interupting the natural rhythm of our hang out wording. I realized,later, I had witnessed the same voiced concerns during my formative years.