Apartment

I signed a lease on a new apartment.   It is the first apartment that I selected based on choice then

circumstances....

It has brought a wave of emotion that this will permeate other areas of my life

Unstitching

When unstitching a previous relationship, I would inform certain woman friends that I would always

have a bond with him.

I painted myself as needing to be available when he needed help because he brought certain behaviors into my life...


Then one day, I was walking and it came to me....one decision ..one thought...one desire...does not
determine being locked in...a mind can be changed...

Atheist

We did something that I was told we should never do....We talked about religion at a party.  

I was book-ended by two atheists....I do not think I believe in that ...it is so  absolute

Golden Showers

I submitted a personal ad.  I wanted to expand my life experiences....throwing out a fishing line for a blind date...

A man responded, with a picture, with a request for golden showers....he appeared to be quite  impassioned by the possibility of it....

The notion of it prompted me to be most curious about the process....would he have rubber sheets?...

which is a more appropriate hostess gift? bedpan or urine sample...


I did not meet him

More Croutons and less Cheer

I went to a salad bar today....a place I routinely choose for my produce hook-up....the attendants greet people with such exuberance  that it floods my frontal lobe with the question, "do anti-depressants come with your company plan"....

I would prefer less cheer and more croutonsMore ...

High School Reunion

A man was discussing his reluctance to attend a high school reunion.   He was bullied and feared similar behavior at the gathering.  

I asked him if he would like to be treated as he is now or as he was....I  proceeded his request to be reacted to his current himself with the suggestion he do the same for the former classmates....

Keep it Corked

A man and I were hosting a dinner party. Sitting in anticipation of our first guest... Everything was set...  I turned to the man and asked if we should let the wines breath... He responded :

"No, not for the quality of wines you buy"