Atheist

We did something that I was told we should never do....We talked about religion at a party.  

I was book-ended by two atheists....I do not think I believe in that ...it is so  absolute

Golden Showers

I submitted a personal ad.  I wanted to expand my life experiences....throwing out a fishing line for a blind date...

A man responded, with a picture, with a request for golden showers....he appeared to be quite  impassioned by the possibility of it....

The notion of it prompted me to be most curious about the process....would he have rubber sheets?...

which is a more appropriate hostess gift? bedpan or urine sample...


I did not meet him

More Croutons and less Cheer

I went to a salad bar today....a place I routinely choose for my produce hook-up....the attendants greet people with such exuberance  that it floods my frontal lobe with the question, "do anti-depressants come with your company plan"....

I would prefer less cheer and more croutonsMore ...

High School Reunion

A man was discussing his reluctance to attend a high school reunion.   He was bullied and feared similar behavior at the gathering.  

I asked him if he would like to be treated as he is now or as he was....I  proceeded his request to be reacted to his current himself with the suggestion he do the same for the former classmates....

Keep it Corked

A man and I were hosting a dinner party. Sitting in anticipation of our first guest... Everything was set...  I turned to the man and asked if we should let the wines breath... He responded :

"No, not for the quality of wines you buy"

Self Programming

I saw a man today.   He was engaging in rituals that he knows will upset him...he is programming

himself  to be upset...

It was a reminder for me to focus more on what will  program me to be positive...weed out behavior or people that de-elevate spirits

Jackie Kennedy

When people questioned my spending time with the stallion....I would explain to them that he would only tell me  what was right about me.....no friendly suggestions of  behavioral changes....

The opposite experience of my formative years and I soaked it up.... whenever and however I could


Cut to last Friday night, I was listening to the tapes of Jackie Kennedy and she revealed that her husband never asked her to be different then who she was when she was First Lady....


Acceptance is the gift we can give each other...