Attraction

I have known people that only repeat how they felt mistreated..concluding their examples with:

"Most people have been mean to me"  Perhaps when most of people's words,concentration and time
are spent on the negative behaviors of others..then perhaps most of your attraction will be spent
on negative behaviors

Imagined Thoughts

I was conversing with a woman that does not react to my spoken words..she reacts to what she imagines my thoughts to be..frequently she takes offense not to what I am saying.. it is to what
she thinks I am saying..

It endangers effective emotional negotiation

Amish

Using my "smartphone" can make me feel dumb..the amish are more teck savvy then I am

Tongue In Cheek

I,really only, listen to find out when I can talk again...I talked to an old friend today..I told her every little thing that was happening to me...

And you know what she had the nerve to do..she then told me about her life .. aww, what does she
think? the world is about her?

"Large Penis"

I had drinks with a straight couple.  The man used the minutes his girlfriend was away from the table to inform me he had a large penis..to big for the available condom during one of their nights of
passion...

"A man having a large penis..that is a good thing right?..I mean isn't that a big compliment for a man?"

"Well not if I am hurting her"  he replied


Yikes, he kind of hurt his image by telling me that story

Paper Napkins

I found myself unable  to refuse a free napkin.  My restaurant selections frequently offered
paper napkins.  The servers would accompany my meals with extra napkins.

Taking the offered napkins were my new Keen money saving habit...I stacked them in anticipation
for using them to dust or to clean the microwave..

When I prepared my apartment for my move from Phoenix to Boston..I found a lot of napkins..in every purse..different nooks and crannies..

some habits are made to be broken..

Being Cut at Their Knees

It will stun me when people that have endured "cut at their knees" experiences continue to choose to be self righteous ..instead of  choosing to be humble and displaying compassion..

I wonder if  self righteous people are trying to fix in others what they want fix in themselves..