Micheal jackson

I was wearing a t-shirt featuring Micheal Jackson in a classic dance move..a man questioned my choice of  featured dead celebrity..

I responded," I am a fan of prescription medication"

Position of Peace

I have been thinking about my relationships with certain woman friends..and how I never take their behavior personally..I am rarely defensive around them..when they are not in touch with me ..I do
not feel rejected or neglected..I am able to believe that they are busy and will be in touch when they can..

There are days when I wish I behave this same way around everyone I value..display less nervous
behaviors which probably reinforces the grey feelings of anxiety between the person and me..

The reason for my position of peace with the certain friends is that I am profoundly confident
in the place that is the root of their behavior and that place does  not appear to have any evidence of malice

"Processing it"

A woman friend does not always answer me when I share my developments with her.

I would,often, consider find it cold.. One night I asked her why she would not respond when I reported a painful conversation..

She said, she was processing it..understanding the reason behind the silence replaced the aggravation

with an appreciation for her not  shooting from the hip...or not jumping to  conclusions

Making her Miserable

A person described witnessing an unjust treatment perpetrated by a co-worker..He concluded the story by saying he was  determined to make her miserable for how she treats  the people under
her supervision..

Is that the best use of his concentration?

Maternal Men

I will meet nurturing ..dare I say maternal..men..They guide me through life one detail a time..

I was discussing pants with one maternal man and he offered a phone number of a seamstress..

Then they seem to move on,without warning, and I will be left in a form of stunned recovery..

Gluten

I have friends that have dated married men..or they have pondered the notion.. I relay a neutral reaction.."to each their own"

I have my hands full with gluten..

Empty Calories..Empty Bank Account

There are days..when sources of sugar feel to be within my reach everywhere I go..I could pop in a market..get a candy bar or danish..or pop into a subway for a cookie..Starbucks for pumpkin bread

I must come from a new angle..that it is a waste of money..2 dollars become 5 dollars and so on,,

Three days of spending 5 dollars adds up fifteen dollars..which can buy u a cotton top at Old Navy

or a black dress they just added to clearance...